
The way you speak and the way you act in front of someone showcases the true sense of concern that you may have for a particular individual. So the next time when you are trying to sympathise with someone make sure that your words and actions are calculated and in moderation point.
Imagine a friend of yours has lost a family member and you are supposed to sympathize with the situation. So whenever you meet them do not go all chirpy and happy rather keep control of your emotions and ask them how they are doing and if they need anything.