Sample Letter of Sympathy

Use our sample letter of sympathy to assist you in expressing your condolences. Here you will find examples of sympathy letters and tips on how to express your condolences.

One of the most difficult things in life is to find the proper words, or phrases of condolences that can properly express your sorrow to those in mourning and who are grieving, and coping with the death of a loved one, or the death of a close friend.

Feel free to use the entire letter of sympathy, or phrases, or words to compose your own letter. Often, as we know, verbal expressions of sympathy to those who have just experienced the death a loved one are often forgotten in those very early moments of grief. And, for most of us, we often offer any assistance that may be required to the bereaved who dealing with grief.


Sample Letter of Sympathy Condolence
Use our sample condolence letter to help you express your sympathy. It also includes an optional paragraph if you can't be with the person who is grieving.

Condolence Message Sample
Here is a sample of a condolence message that you can use. You can alter the message to suit your particular situation.

Words of Comfort for Sympathy
An example of words of comfort to express and offer your sympathy for someone who was a good friend to you.

Words of Condolence
A sample letter to use to express your words of condolences. We hope you find the words in this sympathy letter useful and it helps you express the thoughts and words you are feeling.

Condolence Examples
Words of comfort in a religious letter and words of comfort in a non-religious letter

Persons in grief often have a number of people to help them cope during the first few days of mourning but most of these people have to return to their own busy lives, or schedules. A letter of sympathy, or words of comfort, however, is there for those grieving to grasp, hold, and re-read as necessary to aid in their comfort, or to know you really mean to help in any way possible, or even to add to their memories of their loved one.

Some of the issues they need help with will only occur days or weeks after the death of their loved one. Any offer to help with issues around the estate, or issues concerning looking after their property (lawn cutting, snow removal, etc.) will not be appropriate to include in your initial sympathy note. These kinds of offers to help should be sent a few weeks or days after the funeral. Only you can decide 'when' is the best time, or in what manner to contact them.


While we probably have offered verbal assistance, or condolences, a letter of sympathy can convey our empathy, or offer to help in any way in more substantial terms. If you are offering to help, ensure that you give your phone number, address, and/or email so they can easily find you when you are needed.



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Sympathy Sayings for Cards - When you send a sympathy card, it is sometimes hard to find the right words to express our thoughts. Use our sympathy sayings for your cards. We hope you find them helpful.

Messages of Sympathy - Use our messages of sympathy in your cards or letters. We offer a variety of different examples and short messages here.

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Sympathy Letter Writing Tips - Use our sympathy letter writing tips when you are composing a letter of condolence

Sympathy Verses - A collection of sympathy verses and poems to express your thoughts and perhaps to share with those who are mourning the loss of a loved one.

Sympathy Gifts Appreciated -The best gifts are those that extend from your heart, gifts that specifically say what you are feeling. Here are a few suggestions that you may want to consider

Sympathy Quotes To Console


"The dark today leads into light tomorrow;
There is no endless joy,
...and yet no endless sorrow."
Ella Wheeler Wilcox
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